Hey everyone!
If you’ve stumbled across my blog in any way, shape, or form, welcome! I’m 21, and just moved away from home for education purposes.
Moving away has done good, but it’s also put a strain on some of my other relationships, such as with my best friend. Her phone’s battery is completely fried, so it’s always dead. She also doesn’t use social networking sites like facebook, so communication between us has been very difficult. But I’m learning to patch it. She is one of very few people I can fully trust, and I love her to pieces. Losing her is not an option.
You see, putting all your trust in one person is always a bad idea. Horrible. But sometimes its hard to avoid. It happens by accident. You find that one person who accepts you completely, even the most horrid parts of you, and you hold on because you’re afraid no one will ever accept you that way again. And then you have to leave him or her, and suddenly, everything slowly starts falling apart. You’re stretching the fabric too far, and it’s finally starting to rip, seam by seam. It just wasn’t great enough to cover such a large distance. Most people would give up. I promised I wouldn’t. So now what do I do in this predicament?
Well, I add more fabric of course.
Enough to stretch across the thousand miles separating us.
(Is A Thousand Miles by Vanessa Carlton going through anyone else’s head yet? #tbt)
I hope if you’re going through anything similar, I’ve helped at least a little. Don’t lose your friendships or other relationships over something as silly as distance. It’s not worth it, but he or she is.
Until next time!
Stay out of trouble,
Madeline
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